“To err is human; to forgive,divine.”--Alexander Pope
Generally, we get hurt by close relationships with family members or with people in a professional environment. When we get hurt,our tendency would be thinking too much about the incident or the person cause it. Unconsciously, we start recalling all unfavorable moments happened earlier with the person and forming negative emotions about the person. When this repeats frequently, as they are closely associated with our life, gap is also widening over a period.
When the gap is widening, even the other person does favor for us, we tend to look at with skepticism .In this process, the quality of relationship is strained .The one way of approaching this mindset is to value the relationship by recalling one best moment or favor we experienced with that person. Instead of rewinding one bad moment for many times and affecting the relationship, rewind the positive moments for many times and cherish the relationship.
So many people come across our life, only a few relationships happened with purpose, which we may not know the reason . Only in human beings, some relationships are continuing for a long time and let us preserve it with patience and compassion!!