“To err is human; to forgive,divine.”--Alexander Pope
Generally, we get hurt by close relationships with
family members or with people in a professional environment.
When we get hurt,our tendency would be thinking too much about the incident or the person cause it. Unconsciously, we start
recalling all unfavorable moments
happened earlier with the person and forming negative emotions about the person. When this repeats frequently, as they
are closely associated with our life, gap is also widening over a period.
When the gap is widening,
even the other person does favor for us, we tend to look at with skepticism .In
this process, the quality of relationship is strained .The one way of
approaching this mindset is to value the relationship by recalling one best
moment or favor we experienced with that person. Instead of rewinding one
bad moment for many times and affecting the relationship, rewind the positive
moments for many times and cherish the
relationship.
So many people
come across our life, only a few relationships happened with purpose, which we
may not know the reason . Only in human beings, some relationships are continuing for a long time and let us preserve it with patience and
compassion!!
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