“People may hear your words,but they feel your attitude.”-John C Maxwell
Building relationship with others
is important for successful and happy
life as we always rely on others for
support and guidance .The relationship shall be with our parents, spouse, children,
friends, boss, peers, subordinates,customers and all those are interacting with
us on day to day basis. How can we build and nurture the relationship?
One is to accept the people as they are.By
creation,each one is unique and has different in characterization. We cannot
expect others to behave as we are. We need to realize this fundamental fact and
appreciate the positive sides of each individual rather than finding fault with
others. Once we find fault and criticize, relationship gets strained.
Second is to develop the trust and it is long
term process. On a short term basis, if we build relationship with the intention of what is in it for me attitude, it won’t last long. We need to gain
the confidence of others by demonstrating the behaviors which we expect from
others.
Relationship is a two side
mirror glass thru which we are seeing others and others are seeing us.
If the glass is broken due to discourteous words or rude behavior, it is
difficult to re-form. So Let us foster relationship and be happy! ..
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