“A little more persistence, a little more effort and what seemed hopeless failure may turn to glorious success.”—Elbert Hubbard
Some years back a research had been conducted on a dog with repeated electric shocks in closed environment. Typically, we would expect any sensible dog to seek to avoid the pain of electric shock.What surprisingly observed was that, even there were opportunities to escape from the pain, they simply put down and whined. This observation led psychologist to develop the concept of “learned helplessness”.
At times, as human beings, we seem to give up any attempt to change the situation. We accept the role as victims and inability to do anything about to change the situation.
When we are facing tough situations for long in professional or in a family environment, we start feeling that we have little control over it and start believing as such.Instead of taking even small effort to change the situation we use all energy to cope with the situation. Over a period, we become victims of helplessness.
You may have experienced helplessness feelings either in career progression, business growth or relationship quality.Over a period of time, you cope with that.In this process, your helplessness feeling pulls your confidence and quality of life..
Hence aware of the areas, where you feel “helplessness” and take action to change it.